
So, I picked up my 12 year old son from school yesterday and he tells me, kind of matter of factly, that he asked a girl to be his girlfriend and she said yes. I said, "So, does this mean you are going to hold her hand and give her a kiss?" He said, "Mom I can't kiss her at school, I'll get in trouble. And you have to be on a date to kiss and I can't do that until I'm 16, right" That's right!!
It didn't come as a total surprise that he is interested in her just that he had the courage to ask her. He's been talking about her for a couple months now and asking questions about how boys and girls become boyfriend and girlfriend. Completely, new ground for me, but kind of exciting.
So, he says, "I know I can't date until I am 16, but I would like to take her to the movies this weekend. I can pay for it. I just think it would be fun." Here is the rest of our conversation:
Me: "Dylan that is a date."
Dylan: "No, mom it's just the movies."
Me: "Dylan, what do you think people do on dates?"
Dylan: "I'm not sure, but Dad can take us and then it's not a date."
Me: "That's still a date. How about we all go together as a family and you can invite her to go with us."
Dylan: "But everyone will embarrass me. Can't we go by ourselves?"
Me: "No, Dylan, that is a date."
Dylan: "I don't get it."
I love that he was brave and confident enough to asked this girl to be his girlfriend, and yet scared that this is coming oh so fast. He's my baby boy. Where did the time go?